MORNING SATSANG BY PARAMAHAMSA NITHYANANDA
Nithyanandeshwara
Samaarambhaam
Nithyanandeshwari
Madhyamaam |
Asmath
Aachaarya Paryanthaam
Vandhey
Guru Paramparaam ||
I welcome all of you with my love and blessings.
Today I will
expand on HOW CAUSING OTHERS’ REALITY COMPLETES YOU, how Completion happens in
you in causing others’ reality.
Before that, the
9th day of the Rajarajeshwari Brahmotsavam! Devi is gracing us on Suvarna Shipika
Vaahana, means on the Golden Palkhi (palanquin). Today Devi is going to have Rathotsava on the
thirty-three-feet tall Suvarna Ratha (Golden Chariot). So, she is getting ready in the Suvarna
Shipika Vaahana.
I will continue
the satsangh.
Causing other’s
reality! Please understand, causing
others’ reality is not a sacrifice, be very clear. It is neither a sacrifice nor a moral
value. I am not talking from the context
of moral value to cause others’ reality, be very clear. I wanted to put this on record. All my teachings should be presented with
context. I don’t want to own it or have
copyright over it. But just for not
losing the context, I want it to be protected.
Causing others’
reality, if you do it from the right context, for the right reason, you will be
just radiating enlightenment!
Understand, more and more you think about the misunderstood
you..... Please listen, you cannot
understand you; you can only experience you.
So, any conceptualization, intellectual understanding, any way you try
to grasp you, it will always be misunderstanding. All your trying to grasp you will be
misunderstanding. Understand, you should
know the law of life. One of the biggest
misunderstandings which happen in your life is you trying to grasp you. You not being comfortable with the vast you,
the beautiful you, amazing you, you not celebrating that extraordinary you, and
trying to grasp you, is the Original Sin!
You trying to grasp you is the Original Crime!
I wanted all our
gurukul kids to know – listen here: Don’t try to create an image about you even
though the vast you, you are not able to hold it or grasp it. See, the vast you, naturally what
happens? You feel like ‘Wow!’ So, naturally, what you try to do? For your comfort’s sake you define you through
your mother’s eye, through your father’s eye, through your teacher’s eye,
through your friend’s eyes. You need to
know.....
Today I have a
lesson for gurukul kids, still who have not completely developed you. See, you completely develop an idea, the whole
frame gets complete or becomes a stone only when you are twenty-one. That is the good news for you guys. See, when you are seven, eight, it gets
formed like water, kind of water. And by
fourteen, fifteen, it becomes ice. Only
by twenty-one, it becomes stone. So,
still my gurukul kids, you can build it very easily. Try to be comfortable with your vast you, the
undefined you, unidentified you; nothing wrong.
Be a daughter – I am not saying don’t be a daughter – be a daughter to
your mother, be a student to your teacher, be a friend to your friend, but be
YOU to you! Be undefined YOU to
you! This is for the gurukul kids.
For the grown-up
people for whom already the missed “I” has become a stone or “you”, you trying
to grasp you, it is like when you try to catch the air you jump here, there,
here, there, and catch some dust flying in the air and you will be imagining
you have caught the air in the hand. But
it is not air; the dust flying in the air, you caught that. Same way, if you try to come to a conclusion
with an idea, identity about you, you try to jump, jump, jump, you just catch
some missed “I”, wrong “I”, with that wrong “I” you hold on to you and you
think you caught it...you caught it.
Listen, if you
have already created an “I” about you, you have to be very careful about the
truth: it is a lie. Any “I” you carry
about you, even if you think you are God, it is wrong! You are not expected to THINK you are God,
you are expected to EXPERIENCE you are God!
The great truth, “Nithyanandoham”, “I am Nithyananda”, is not to be
thought about, it has to be experienced!
Thinking is allowed from the context of experience.
Listen! Listen!
Any identity you created, any “I” you created, it is wrong
identity. The more and more you think
about your identity, you will enter into more and more incompletion. The more you think about “I”, “I”, “I”, the
more and more incompletion you will create.
Listen! Listen!
Listen! Any identity you create,
the more and more you think about it, you remember it, it will lead to more and
more incompletion. The only way to
loosen the power of your identity over the real you is by causing others’
reality. When you start causing others’
reality, when you start working causing others’ reality, suddenly you will see
you develop a certain kind of grace!
Please understand, the way you maintain your skin and the shape is
“beauty”. The way you maintain you is
“grace”. I am not saying don’t be
beautiful. I am saying, be graceful
also! Go on causing others’ reality.
I tell you,
whenever you feel stuck, these are the five stones I am giving you. In Mahabharata, you can see, Krishna gives
five stones to Arjuna once and Draupadi once.
He tells them, ‘Whenever you are in a mess, you are in trouble, you are
stuck, you are not able to handle things further, you want consolation, see
this; you will get an answer!’ I can
give you this great talisman, “thaayatthu” (Tamil word for talisman) which
solves all your problems whenever you are stuck, whenever you feel suffocated. I know many of you are stuck in many
places. The day you all learn liberated
thinking, you will be causing thousands of lives into inner awakening and
liberated thinking. I am really telling
you, if you carry the grace, just if you go around, people will talk to you and
follow you and listen to you.
Authentic,
sincere decision to cause others’ reality, to be a catalyst for others’
reality, brings certain grace in you, the groundedness in you, stability in
you. I tell you, that stability adds
grace to your body. Beauty becomes
beautiful when the grace is also added!
I know many of you are stuck somewhere here and there. Somebody is stuck in a job, not able to move
further. Somebody is stuck with some
sickness, not able to get healthy. Somebody
is stuck in some relationship, neither able to make it work nor able to
break. Some people are stuck with some
failures, neither able to get over nor able to digest. Somebody is stuck with something else. So many people stuck! I can give you all guys one talisman in which
in golden sheet it is written: “BE A CATALYST FOR OTHERS’ REALITY”. I can give it secretly to you. You can wear it on your hip. Whenever you are in a mess, you can take it
out secretly without anybody’s knowledge, read it and put it back. The words written on it will be: “BE A
CATALYST FOR OTHERS’ REALITY”.
I am really
telling you! Whenever you sit as a group
and be a catalyst for others’ reality, your visualization, feeling ability, the
power of words, power of thinking, power of feeling, power of living,
everything will expand! From tomorrow,
the theme for the morning Sangha meeting should be: BEING A CATALYST FOR
OTHERS’ REALITY. No one will try to
discipline the other. Everyone will be a
catalyst for others’ reality. Wherever
the Sangha meeting is happening, put a big board: “LET US ALL BE A SINCERE
CATALYST FOR OTHERS’ REALITY”. Let us
ask everyone, ‘What is it that you really want to cause?’
Please
understand, even if the other person has some immature reality and that is what
he wants to cause, if you approach it with love, the love you carry will have
the smell of the Ultimate Reality, and simply the moment he receives your love,
he will change his programming from immature reality to Ultimate Reality! Arrey, that is the exact way, all you college
boys and girls, I made you as Advaithis!
Do you think you guys were born with the idea that ‘I want to be an
Advaithi”? All college kids saying “Hi”,
“Bye” came to me with all kinds of immature realities.
I know some
people are here as sannyasis who came to me asking for blessings: ‘I am seeking
your blessings that I should get married to the same girl!’ The love with which I said “Thathaasthu!”,
that “Thathaasthu” for his immature reality, it is coming from my mature
Ultimate Reality. Because it is coming
from such an ultimate reality, with that love, when it entered into that guy,
he fell in love with that “Thathaasthu” and he forgot for what he got
“Thathaasthu” and he fell for the “Thathaasthu”!
Understand,
usually when somebody asks an immature reality, don’t be angry with them, don’t
hate them. With your tremendous sincere
love, be a catalyst, decide to cause their reality.
Food and love do
not go alone. Both of them always go
with the thoughts with which they are given.
Food and love do not go alone.
They always go with the thoughts with which they are given. That is why, I tell you, if you want to make
somebody a devotee, give them the temple Prasad. That Prasad will work on them. They will simply become devotees! Every time the Prasad reaches the stomach,
Krishna sits in the heart, because Prasad is the vehicle through which Krishna
enters into you. Food does not go
alone. Same way, love does not go
alone. That is why I am telling you, the
love of an enlightened being, an incarnation, a person who is established in
the Ultimate Reality is the best thing that can happen in your life, because
his love does not enter into you just as an emotion; it enters into you as
enlightenment! You also be very clear,
‘This guy wants to cause some immature reality.
How can I be a sincere catalyst for his immature reality? No!’ With
lot of love, sincerely try to be a catalyst.
By the time you go near him, you try to be a catalyst, your love and intensity,
your intention is so beautiful, graceful, he will catch fire!
It is by my
love, I made Ultimate Reality as a boon for you. Otherwise what do you guys know about
Ultimate Reality? How many of you have
come to me asking for Ultimate Reality? No
one! You came to me with leg pain; I
showed you the right path to walk. You
came to me with eye pain; I gave you the right vision. You come to me with your immature reality
only, no doubt; but I don’t judge you or hate you saying, ‘You are asking such
an ordinary, immature reality from me as a boon? I am sitting here with the Ultimate
Reality!’ No! With love, sincerely I try authentically
being a sincere catalyst for what you want to cause as reality.
As I said, my
love has a high-level content of Ultimate Reality. I should put a sign-board: “Warning! This love contains high-level authentic
reality, Ultimate Reality. If you drink this
love, you will naturally start getting into the idea of Ultimate Reality”! And on all our Prasad also you should write:
“Warning! This food will make you a
devotee!”
Please
understand, today this is the homework for everyone around the world, all over
the world, by sitting with your Sangha.
See, each one of you will have your Sangha, means your family, office, team
with which you are working, your subordinates, the people who are involved in
your business. Invite all of them. Sit with your Sangha. And many of you may have our Sangha
also. All your Sanghas put together is
our Sangha, that’s all! Sit with your
Sangha and our Sangha. Take time. Call them all for a “Chai pe Charcha”
(“Discussion over Tea”). Call them all. Sit with your Sangha. You be sincerely a catalyst for others’
reality. Tell yourself, ‘I will be a
sincere catalyst for others’ reality.’
You tell the whole group and commit to them you will be causing
everyone’s reality. Inspire them also to
think to be a catalyst for others’ reality.
Spend half-an-hour, plan, think sincerely: ‘How can I be a catalyst for
others’ reality?’ And sincerely start
taking steps for it, towards it. The
more and more steps you take to cause others’ reality.....
I tell you,
don’t even expect he will be grateful to you if you caused his reality. Actually, when you start causing others’
reality, you become so mature, you grow up so much, you become so fulfilled
causing others’ reality. For example, if
you are a sincere catalyst for ten people’s reality, you will have the
fulfilment of living in ten lives! You
will have the Completion that you live ten lives! You will not take any more birth! You will straightaway enter into the Complete
Completion, the Ultimate Completion! Why
do you think I am saying I won’t take one more birth? Because I am overwhelmingly completed by
living all your lives! By being a sincere
catalyst for all your lives, I am overwhelmingly completed! By making all of you joyful, I am joyful so
many multiple lives’ level! By bringing
Completion to all of you, so many multiple lives’ level I am complete! By bringing Completion into you all, so many
multiple lives’ level I am complete!
When I cause fulfilment to thousands of you, I am complete as if I have
taken thousands of janmas (births) and enjoyed all these things! This Completion to so much levels, in so many
multiple layers of quality and quantity, that is what I call “Nithya
Ananda”! When I cause health to millions
of you, I feel I lived millions of lives healthy! When I cause wealth to millions of you, I
feel I lived millions of lives wealthy!
When I cause fulfilment to millions of you, I feel I lived millions of
lives with fulfilment!
So, understand,
when you cause something to thousands of people, millions of people, you will
have layers and layers and layers and layers of fulfilment and Completion. A sannyasi should be having at least a
thousand-layer Completion and fulfilment; only then he has enough bank
balance! The amount of Completion and
fulfilment you establish is the bank balance, the real bank balance you have in
life.
My gurukul kids
should start this. When you are a kid
start this. All the kids, gurukul kids,
especially Krama Brahmacharis and Brahmacharinis, now itself you should build
this lifestyle: Anything anybody asks, give it away! Whatever you have, if somebody says,
‘Beautiful! Nice!’, immediately give it
away to them, saying, ‘Please have it’!
You should start this. You may
think, ‘No, no, when I can’t have anything, how can I give?’ That’s okay.
That is okay. Of course, anything
which belongs to Sangha you cannot do anything about it; it is not yours. But anything which is yours, given to you as
yours, if anybody asks for it, always give away. I tell you, I grew up with this pattern. I grew up with this lifestyle. I should not use the word “pattern” for it;
“Lifestyle”! It gives you courage,
feeling wealthy! All my kids, especially
Krama Brahmacharis and Brahmacharinis should start this. Of course, for the adult Brahmacharis and
Sannyasis, it is a lifestyle! You HAVE
to do it! You HAVE to live this way
only! No question of having an idea
‘something belongs to me’! Not only in
the material level, even in the word, thinking, feeling, living level! If your body has the energy to move and give
a square meal to somebody, you have to do it.
When they ask, it is no more yours; give it! When your words are capable of giving a
solution or the Completion or some consoling word, and somebody is asking, it
is no more yours; give it!
Understand, take
this aparigraha (non-possessiveness) to the next level. When your emotions, heart has a capability to
give love and somebody is asking, it is no more yours; give! When your thinking has the ability to cause
somebody’s reality and they are asking, it is no more yours; you have no right
to say ‘No’; Cause their reality! When
your life has the capability to cause what they want and they are asking, it is
no more yours; Cause it! Go to the
extreme of causing others’ reality; you will experience multiple layers of
Completion! Not just one Completion
which you sit in the night before sleeping 10 to 10:30 pm.....or looking at the
mirror and planning, ‘Tomorrow I will be xxxxxx’! HAHAHAHAHAHA!
Don’t I know what all you guys are thinking when you are looking at the
mirror? HAHAHAHAHAHAHA! Not THAT Completion I am talking about. Start being a sincere catalyst for others’
reality. When you start thinking and
feeling for others’ reality, I tell you, the amount of energy will expand, you
will express, the amount of energy you will radiate....Wow! You will become like Kaalabhairava!
Whether you are
sitting with your office team or your house team or your business team, be a
sincere catalyst for others’ reality. I
am really, really, really telling you!
Don’t ever have the doubt that others will exploit you. Complete with that incompletion if you think
somebody has exploited you and they may exploit you. Complete with that and drop. Don’t create the space for others exploiting
you by holding on to that incompletion.
Complete with that and drop.
Because you have the feeling others will exploit you, people who want to
exploit you will come to you! If you
complete with this, you will complete with them. Be a sincere catalyst.
Somebody in our
ashram, in one department, one worker, he has stolen something and run
away. Actually, first he has stolen, and
then we gave complaint to the police. He
confessed to the police saying, ‘Yes, I only stole. I will pay the money back. Please don’t put me in jail. Don’t arrest me because my son is getting
married. His marriage will be stopped.’ He came and cried. Then when I heard, I said, ‘Alright! Poor fellow....his son’s marriage will be
stopped; his life will be destroyed.
Leave it! After all he has
accepted that he has stolen and he will pay it back. Leave it!’
I just left it.
Suddenly, we
saw, a few days before (again recently), this fellow has stolen something more
and run away. Then somebody, some Swamis
who look after all administration, they came and said, ‘Swamiji, see (what has
happened because of) your compassion! At
that time itself we should have arrested him and we could have got all these
stolen things back. Further stealing
would not have happened. See...because
of your compassion we lost this.’ I
laughed and said, ‘Don’t even bother!
The whole thing is created because of my compassion! This whole Sangha itself has happened, thousands
of this whole thing too has happened only because of my compassion! And these million things have happened only
because of my compassion! Only one small
thing is lost, stolen. So, never ever
question the power of my compassion. And
the power of my compassion is capable enough to protect itself without getting
exploited!’
And I am telling
you guys now, whatever he has stolen, we will get it back, you will see! Because I trust my power of compassion! I trust my power of compassion! I trust my power to trust! I trust my power of compassion because it is
from the space of Completion!
I said, ‘What is
there? Yes, he has stolen a few
things. But he has stolen only a little
from this huge Sangha. Only a small bit
he has stolen. But this huge Sangha
itself has happened only from my power of compassion.’
Please
understand, this Sangha has not happened from my power of oration, neither from
my any other powers. It is purely from
my power of love and compassion. I may
have so many different powers; all those powers have created different,
different things. My power of oration
has created a lot of printing material, brain candies. My power of healing has created a lot of
devotees. My power of materialization
has created a lot of curiosity in people...’Wow’! So, each one of my powers has done different,
different work. But it is my power of
love and compassion that created this Sangha.
That forms the basis of this Sangha.
I may train you guys from the context of compassion. The context is not hatred; the context is
compassion.
Yesterday, to
one of my Ma Swamis I was telling.... After
seeing her horoscope I felt she may have some disease. So, I told her, ‘You have to go to the doctor
and have complete diagnosis.’ At that
time I was telling her, ‘I may scream, tell you to work...that’s different. But, when it comes to this, I will protect
you, I will save you, I will heal you; I will not let even grahas
(planets/astrological influences) to take my sannyasis! They are MY sannyasis! They may fall from the context inside; with
being my disciple or being my sannyasi, they may fall. But as long as outside they are with the
Sangha, I will continue to bring them back to the context and protect them.’ That is why I tell you guys, never ever leave
the Sangha! Never ever imagine of
leaving the Sangha, and then you give a big statement, ‘I have nothing to do
with you, you have nothing to do with me.’
Then I won’t interfere. I will think,
‘Okay! What to do?’ From a distance I have to show my sympathy
and compassion and keep quiet. But as
long as you are in the Sangha, I will not let even grahas touch you! I may train you, but purely from the context
of compassion and love.
In traditional
Indian medicine, there was a kind of treatment.
Even in the South it was very popular.
If you go with some wound, with pus, infection, the doctor will put fire
around that wound. He will burn around
that wound. You will see, it becomes
completely healed! In Tamil there is a verse,
“Theeyinaal sutta punn, ulla aarum”.
Means, “if you burn the wound, inside it will be healed”. All the pus, infection, everything will come
out, and from inside it will be healed.
But, unfortunately, people give a wrong interpretation as “Even if we are
burned by fire, it may be healed, but not by the word”. That verse is misinterpreted. But you need to know: “Theeyinaal sutta punn,
ulla aarum”. When you burn the wound, it
will be healed from the inside. When a
doctor puts fire around your wound and burns it, he does not hate you; he does
it because he loves you!
I have seen one
old man in my native village (hometown).
He will have that turmeric, raw turmeric, the root turmeric. In Tamil we call it “Varali Manjal”. He will burn that and put it around the skin
where the wound is. In two days it will
be alright, completely healed! But when
he burns, it will naturally pain. You
will throw tantrums: ‘I am leaving! Let
him live with whatever he thinks as good people! I don’t want such a silly abuse from
God!’ If you accept somebody as God,
whatever he gives, how can it be silly? If you think he is silly, you are silly.
Listen! Being a sincere catalyst for others’ reality
brings layers and layers of Completion into you. Now how you have layers and layers of
incompletion, like that you will accumulate layers and layers of Completion. I bless you all to accumulate layers and
layers of Completion, layers and layers of Completion, “punya”, blessings!
Before we go to
the Kalpataru process, let us have a video presentation.
VIDEO
PRESENTATON.....................
Causing others’
reality, making them do one Inner Awakening is the best way you will cause
others’ reality. Understand, making them
do one Inner Awakening is the best way you will cause others’ reality.
We will move to
the Kalpataru process. Please, all the
people who have come for darshan, Kalpataru Darshan, sit straight.
Start penning
down two things: One, a thought you want to cause as reality. Second, all the incompletions,
impossibilities, doubts you have about that reality, about causing that thought
as reality. Do this for the next few
minutes. Please pick up a paper and
pen. Write down the thought you want to
cause as reality. Write all the impossibilities,
incompletions, doubts you have to cause that one thought as reality. This you are going to read for yourself; it
is not for others. It is your own
intranalyzing that works. I think even
gurukul kids should do this. Come
on! Pick up your paper and pen and do
it!
(After a few
minutes....................)
Yes, now please
sit straight. Create a space inside you
for what you want to cause as reality.
Means, hold on to the thought you want to cause as reality as already
reality. Make this space that it is
already reality. And complete with all
the doubts, impossibilities, incompletions and drop them. Hold on to cause the thought that you want as
reality. Namah Shivaya!
KALPATARU
MEDITATION IN PROGRESS.....................
Relax. I bless you all! Whatever you hold as your inner-space, let it
become reality! Namah Shivaya!
We have today
all the Thanedars’, Kotharis’, Mahants’, Shrimahants’, volunteers’
meeting. Even volunteers can attend the
Thursday meetings....staff, volunteers, everyone.
So, today, we
don’t have Kalpataru Darshan for any city.
But, Bidadi, whoever has come for Kalpataru Darshan, whoever came for
Darshan, please come!
___________________ END OF SATSANG __________________
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